Are Muslim Women Oppressed?

Rights and Status of Women in Islam

© Christine Benlafquih

Oct 26, 2008
Muslim women in conservative Islamic dress, David Lisbona, www.flickr.com
Although media reports often draw readers to conclude that Islam demeans and devalues women, the true teachings of Islam give women much respect, honor and rights.

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Atrocities such as honor killings, genital mutilation, forced marriage, punishment of rape victims, denial of women to an education, and confining women to their homes cross religious and cultural boundaries. Such oppression of women cannot be attributed to the Qur'an, early Islamic traditions, or early Islamic law.

Rights of Muslim Women

The confusion and debate over Muslim women arises primarily because of:

Under Islam, most Muslim women have enjoyed the following rights for more than 1400 years:

  • The right to inherit, earn, own and manage money and property
  • The right to financial support from a husband, father, brother or other male relative
  • The right not to spend her money on family expenses, even if she does work
  • The right to an education
  • The right to participate in public life
  • The right to marry only with her approval
  • The right to a mahr, or bridal gift
  • The right to specify prenuptial agreements in her marriage contract
  • The right to sexual satisfaction within marriage
  • The right to initiate divorce, even on grounds she dislikes her husband and feels unable to fulfill his rights
  • The right to child custody in case of divorce

Status of Muslim Women

A Muslim woman may pursue a career, but greater value is given to her role as wife and mother. Islam especially elevates the status of a mother due to her sacrifices during pregnancy, childbirth and childrearing:

“A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship?' The Prophet said: 'Your mother.' The man said, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: 'Then your mother.' The man further asked, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: 'Then your mother.' The man asked again, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: 'Then your father.'” (Bukhari, Muslim)

"We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth." (Qur'an 46:15).

Early Muslim Women

Despite the high status given to traditional women's roles, many early Muslim women chose to participate in business, philanthropy, social work, politics, military work, writing, teaching and other public endeavors while observing modest Islamic dress and behavior. In his article "In Recognition of Women," Khaled Abou El Fadl notes that more than 2,500 women scholars, jurists, and poets alone can be found in Islam's history, including some who issued religious licenses to men.

Notable early Muslim women include:

  • Khadija, the first wife of the Prophet Muhammad, was a respected businesswoman who employed the Prophet before she proposed to him.
  • Shaffa bint Abdullah was inspector of the Medina market under the second caliph, Omar ibn Al-Kattab.
  • Aishah bint Abu Bakr, the youngest wife of the Prophet, narrated more than two thousand religious traditions (hadith); she also led military expeditions after the Prophet's death and tutored many scholars.
  • Arwa bint Ahmad served as governor of Yemen in the late 5th and early 6th centuries.
  • Zubaidah bint Ja'fr al-Mansur, a wealthy benefactress, funded the construction of Mecca's water supply system and the establishment of a pilgrimage route from Baghdad to Mecca in the late 8th and early 9th centuries.

Their example shows that cultural restrictions experienced today by some women do not have basis in the original teachings and practice of Islam. Under Islam, women are entitled to intellectual, physical and emotional fulfillment, and they have the right to participate actively in society.


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Comments
Nov 1, 2008 9:06 AM
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A pure society will result not only in salvation but in prosperity. What would you choose, a society where men and women respect one another and help one another achieve nearness to God, or would you prefer the present society? Let's face reality. Women have no respect in this society. Just turn on the radio, you will hear how men talk about going to the beach to look at women, free ladies' night at the clubs; we see surveys in major magazines where more than half of American men report being sexually aroused on the job daily by the way women dress themselves; teen pregnancies, rape, youth suicide, runaways, adultery, divorce on the rise, broken homes; another survey of Time Magazine reports that men between the ages of 25 to 40 have 6 to 9 sexual partners; picture the scenes on college campuses, especially where there are dorms, is this really the society in which you, your children, your future generations want to spend the short time we have on this earth to prepare for our eternal life?

As a woman, I pity women in this society. From early childhood, they are taught that their main asset is their physical attraction (think of teen beauty pageants; there are now cheer-pom squads for girls even in elementary schools). They are made to believe that they must parade their physical beauty, spend hours working out in the gyms to shape their figures only to display them at the beaches, all this demeaning compromise so that eventually they will catch a husband. Once they do, they continue to display their attractiveness outside the home, only to be complimented by men other than their husband, or sexually harassed on the job, generally starting the slide into the path of adultery, divorce, broken homes, etc... Enough is Enough.

In Islam, a women need not compromise her dignity, her integrity, her high self-esteem at any time. She thinks, behaves, and dresses modestly. She is respected by all members of the society, particularly men. She displays her beauty for her own husband, not providing a free show for all to enjoy:

Modest behaviour, of which clothing is only one part, is worth the effort. Why would we, as women, who are entrusted the great responsibility of teaching all of mankind the ways of our Lord, why would we ever want to cause indecent thoughts in the mind of our fellow men who are our brothers in the sight of God. In an Islamic society, men and women help each other achieve goodness, they are not devilishly tempting one another.
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