Although media reports often draw readers to conclude that Islam demeans and devalues women, the true teachings of Islam give women much respect, honor and rights.
Atrocities such as honor killings, genital mutilation, forced marriage, punishment of rape victims, denial of women to an education, and confining women to their homes cross religious and cultural boundaries. Such oppression of women cannot be attributed to the Qur'an, early Islamic traditions, or early Islamic law.
Rights of Muslim Women
The confusion and debate over Muslim women arises primarily because of:
The right to initiate divorce, even on grounds she dislikes her husband and feels unable to fulfill his rights
The right to child custody in case of divorce
Status of Muslim Women
A Muslim woman may pursue a career, but greater value is given to her role as wife and mother. Islam especially elevates the status of a mother due to her sacrifices during pregnancy, childbirth and childrearing:
“A man came to the Prophet and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship?' The Prophet said: 'Your mother.' The man said, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: 'Then your mother.' The man further asked, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: 'Then your mother.' The man asked again, ‘Then who?' The Prophet said: 'Then your father.'” (Bukhari, Muslim)
"We have enjoined on man kindness to his parents; in pain did his mother bear him, and in pain did she give him birth." (Qur'an 46:15).
Early Muslim Women
Despite the high status given to traditional women's roles, many early Muslim women chose to participate in business, philanthropy, social work, politics, military work, writing, teaching and other public endeavors while observing modest Islamic dress and behavior. In his article "In Recognition of Women," Khaled Abou El Fadl notes that more than 2,500 women scholars, jurists, and poets alone can be found in Islam's history, including some who issued religious licenses to men.
Notable early Muslim women include:
Khadija, the first wife of the Prophet Muhammad, was a respected businesswoman who employed the Prophet before she proposed to him.
Shaffa bint Abdullah was inspector of the Medina market under the second caliph, Omar ibn Al-Kattab.
Aishah bint Abu Bakr, the youngest wife of the Prophet, narrated more than two thousand religious traditions (hadith); she also led military expeditions after the Prophet's death and tutored many scholars.
Arwa bint Ahmad served as governor of Yemen in the late 5th and early 6th centuries.
Zubaidah bint Ja'fr al-Mansur, a wealthy benefactress, funded the construction of Mecca's water supply system and the establishment of a pilgrimage route from Baghdad to Mecca in the late 8th and early 9th centuries.
Their example shows that cultural restrictions experienced today by some women do not have basis in the original teachings and practice of Islam. Under Islam, women are entitled to intellectual, physical and emotional fulfillment, and they have the right to participate actively in society.
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A pure society will result not only in salvation but in prosperity. What
would you choose, a society where men and women respect one another and
help one another achieve nearness to God, or would you prefer the present
society? Let's face reality. Women have no respect in this society. Just
turn on the radio, you will hear how men talk about going to the beach to
look at women, free ladies' night at the clubs; we see surveys in major
magazines where more than half of American men report being sexually
aroused on the job daily by the way women dress themselves; teen
pregnancies, rape, youth suicide, runaways, adultery, divorce on the rise,
broken homes; another survey of Time Magazine reports that men between the
ages of 25 to 40 have 6 to 9 sexual partners; picture the scenes on college
campuses, especially where there are dorms, is this really the society in
which you, your children, your future generations want to spend the short
time we have on this earth to prepare for our eternal life?
As
a woman, I pity women in this society. From early childhood, they are
taught that their main asset is their physical attraction (think of teen
beauty pageants; there are now cheer-pom squads for girls even in
elementary schools). They are made to believe that they must parade their
physical beauty, spend hours working out in the gyms to shape their figures
only to display them at the beaches, all this demeaning compromise so that
eventually they will catch a husband. Once they do, they continue to
display their attractiveness outside the home, only to be complimented by
men other than their husband, or sexually harassed on the job, generally
starting the slide into the path of adultery, divorce, broken homes, etc...
Enough is Enough.
In Islam, a women need not compromise her
dignity, her integrity, her high self-esteem at any time. She thinks,
behaves, and dresses modestly. She is respected by all members of the
society, particularly men. She displays her beauty for her own husband, not
providing a free show for all to enjoy:
Modest behaviour, of
which clothing is only one part, is worth the effort. Why would we, as
women, who are entrusted the great responsibility of teaching all of
mankind the ways of our Lord, why would we ever want to cause indecent
thoughts in the mind of our fellow men who are our brothers in the sight of
God. In an Islamic society, men and women help each other achieve goodness,
they are not devilishly tempting one another.